We say “yes” ... we start doing things ... but we just pretend we really do the change.

As an example ... you have an addiction for alcohol ... you decide to stop drinking, but when you see someone drinking ... you think again about the pleasure of your addiction.

And the chance to come back where your’ve been for such a long time is quite big.

But why?!

Why you can’t really make the change?!

Well ... it’s quite simple ... there is no connection between your mind and your soul.

I know that personal development tells us that “Fake it till you make it!” ...and is kind of a trick to start the process of change ... but real connection with the concept of change comes when you actually connect with the present moment and you feel that you can’t continue anymore in the old way ... that brought you to emotional bankruptcy.

An individual that drunk for years ... if he understands that his life is ruined because of the alcohol and feeling the need of change as something beautiful for his life ... will make the change.

The whole process ... is not a mental process ... but a mix between thoughts and feelings.

I’ve been also drinking for many years.

One day i read on a blog the definition of an alcoholic ... and i was shocked .. cause i was thinking differently.

The guy with the blog wrote ... “An alcoholic is a person that drinks everyday ... no matter how much he drinks” ... and i was drinking everyday.

One day i decided to stop ... totally stop drinking alcohol.

I realized that the alcohol changes me and my thoughts.

Even if i was drinking only in the night .. it was stealing my energy of the next day ... but it took me years to do it.

I was not a ... let’s say a professional alcoholic ... but still i was an alcoholic.

And the change came only when i felt i want to be in control of myself everyday ... in any of the moments of the day.

All our decision should be a union between mind and soul ... and in fact decision of change should follow beautiful paths.

Think of the change ... plan the change ... but also feel deep inside you the must of that change.

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